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My name Irawan Budi Suganda, I was born July 24,1978 in Blitar and know I am working in PT.Panaonic Lighting Indonesia. My wife ask elementary school teacher , her name Silfia Safriani she is very beatiful and I am very happy with her.
We’ve got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can’t just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it’s going to get on by itself. You’ve got to keep watering it. You’ve got to really look after it and nurture it.

I love my wife, and she loves me. On this page, I share an essay that she wrote for me a few years ago. I think it says it all.

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I fell in love with this man the first time I saw him. He had the most intelligent, kind and loving eyes. I asked him out, and three weeks later we were married, and you know what, more than seven years have passed ever since.

He has given me everything I always dreamed of and more. Has been there for me through absolutely everything bad that I have gone through, including grave illnesses and most recently the death of my mother.

Even though you have heard some of these stories, the possibilities of you believing them are somewhat remote, as love at first sight has been portrayed an event that will fade as it is transitory. Not so! Love at first site can endure the most difficult experiences life can through at you but it requires maturity and willingness by both parties.

How can someone be sure that love at first sight will endure? By giving and taking. Do not take the other person for granted. Do not try to change them to what you think they should become but instead, nurture what they have that made you fall in love with them in the first place and above all, be honest with each other from the beginning. Most problems arise from lack of the truth and from candy coated statements we think are going to make the relationship easier. Believe me, it very seldom occurs that way. Once you start altering the truth, it will continue and will grow like a two-headed monster.

Now, there is the practice that you give the person you love everything he or she may need and want and even though it may seem like you are giving up who you are to please them, you are just adjusting to his or her ideology and way of seeing life. Believe me, if your mate has little quirks that bother you from the beginning, they will be there forever and time will magnify them. Your goals and their doability have to match. It is not enough to believe that you will be able to introduce change into the life of your mate. Remember that change can and will introduce chaos and if you cannot control the chaos, your relationship with this wonderful person will go down like a ton of hard bricks on top of your head.

How much are you willing to take chances and how much do you want to spend on someone else is vital for love at first sight to work. Every relationship worth’s while exploring. There is always an important part of yourself that you get to discover and it is up to you how do you wish to handle your discovery. As of today, I have not seen a relationship that has not been a life lesson from which I have learned. Nonetheless, there are times when you are going to find yourself tangled in the web of the pure and plain physical pursuit of pleasure. Do not add love to this equation. Even though love and desire are tied together, when love is present, not only your body but also your soul shares the pleasure as well. Starting a family becomes heavier in the balance of desires and participation by both parties makes it even more pleasurable.